There is no right or wrong way to grieve the loss of your child. Grief must be experienced. Realize that even some of your closest friends and family will say things like, "You can always have another baby." We live in a world of quick fixes, and people will want to find something positive in such a horrible event. Death makes people uncomfortable. Your pain makes them nervous. And no one wants to believe that babies die. But to survive your loss you must face it.